THE ROUGH DRAFT IS NOT COMPLETELTY DONE , BUT BASED RESPONSE OFF OF WHAT THE GENERAL VIEW IS.
1.Do you need happiness and love to get married?
2.Do you feel that there is an age to be in love?
3.Why are they so many divorces?
4.Do you feel there are so many divorces because there is no love?
5.Do you believe you should wait to get into an relationship till after you finish college?
6.Do you feel you should experience having a mate i your teens?
7.What is the general view?
8.Is this a myth or not?
9.If it is a myth, do you believe it?
10.What can be done to improve this draft?
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1.Do you need happiness and love to get married?
Yes you do, because been marry is to give up so many things in your life to just one person, and if your not happy and in love the marriage can only go so far. Marriage is the social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments, religious ceremonies, you are been devoted to one person and if your heart is not on the same place, then you are not ready for it.
2.Do you feel that there is an age to be in love?
I think teenagers don't really know what love really is, unless they have been together for a long time. I think once you have spend all that time with the person you mostly care about, and have learn to love the person for their inner and outter selfs then you know what love really is all about.
3.Why are they so many divorces?
They are so many divorces because people are taking the word "LOVE" out of proportion. Beleive it or not the word Love is very strong and people are using it as if nothing. People think they are in love but after they get marry and realize there not, thats when divorces are taken place.
4.Do you feel there are so many divorces because there is no love?
No not really because there has been cases that people divorce each other because of personal situations. There can still be love there but for the sake of someones health they had to get divorce. Many people sometimes also regret getting divorce and at the end get back together.
5.Do you believe you should wait to get into an relationship till after you finish college?
Depends on how you can balance two things at once. It's really up to the person
6.Do you feel you should experience having a mate i your teens?
In a way yes because if you don't experience that it only gets harder when you grow up, that one relationship in your teens can be good for you, but then again is not for everyone.
7.What is the general view?
I think love is a wonderful thing, and marriage is a big step that its involve in it. If a person feels compassionate for their partner and have been together for a while, then they should definately get ready, but they both have to be ready for it.
8.Is this a myth or not?
In a way it is because we have heard stories, and have grown to beleive that everyone should get marry, but theres many cases out there that people choose not to get marry and live a happily life together.
9.If it is a myth, do you believe it?
I do beleive in Love and Marriage.
10.What can be done to improve this draft?
This draft was good, and had good questions that really makes you think about
1.Do you need happiness and love to get married?
No. I think that thats all you really need to start thinking about getting married. However in order to get married I think you should be somewhat financial stable, unless you don't mind living with your parents, want a small cheap wedding, and know that its going to start off really hard.
2.Do you feel that there is an age to be in love?
I think if you are at a mature age and you know what you want then i think its ok. However there is a discrepancy. Usually a little 3 year old girl would respond they wanna marry their dad. Of course they don't know what they mean but my point is that you don't really know what you want at a young age and your preferences change over time. They say along with age comes wisdom.
3.Why are they so many divorces?
I think there are so many divorces besides the fact of cheating spouses because people don't take enough time to REALLY get to know each other before getting married. They think they are soooo in love and it wont end but their is a point in time where two people get off from being high on love. Im not saying that there is no more love or that it cannot grow but the is truly a somewhat scientific amount of time that people stop being infatuated with being in love. Thats when the guy stops opening the car door for the girl. And the girl may stop calling a much. Not that they love each other any less but it just happens. Its not a "new" love.
4.Do you feel there are so many divorces because there is no love?
No I don't think thats the primary reason. Of course not all people that fall in love stay in love though. Which could easily be because one person did something to the other. Or simply because they lost interest.
5.Do you believe you should wait to get into an relationship till after you finish college?
Not necessarily. A relationship serious enough to get married I think that it would be easier because usually after marriage you want to have a child and then you have to get a good job to be able to afford a beginning family and then on top of that you have to go to school plus take care of your spouse and then whatever house chores, bills, ect.
Once your relationship doesn't affect you getting your degree I don't see a problem with it.
Usually after college after you get a good job you're looking to get married so in the mean time while you're having relationships you know what you want in a person and you know what you don't want.
6.Do you feel you should experience having a mate in your teens?
Like I said in the previous question once it does not interfere with your school work and you don't do anything that you're not suppose to or your being extremely careful then I think its fine. Later on in life when you are looking to get married you know exactly the kind of person you're looking for.
7.What is the general view?
In general in regards to relationships and life I think that in your teens you date and don't do anything your not suppose to be doing. Then you go to college get your degree in the mean time you have someone you want to marry and if thats the right person then they should have no problem waiting to get married until after you finished college and have a good stable job. Before you get married I think that you should move in with the person to know their living habits. Then get married and have children.
8.Is this a myth or not?
Uhm actually thats how it is in my culture as well so its hard for me to say because once you grow up knowing and being taught one thing its kinda hard to look at it as being wrong. I think that the way we were brought up is initially the way its supposed to be but so many people veer off that course and after awhile it becomes normal in society to not finish college have a baby and get married.
9.If it is a myth, do you believe it?
If it is a myth then yes I believe it.
10.What can be done to improve this draft?
The draft was good. Its an interesting topic really thought provoking. To improve it i would say research the topic more maybe find some statistics that prove the myth or disprove it and continue with the examples with this topic i think that examples help in painting the picture.
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